Phase of Life Transitions include:
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Phase of Life Changes
Life transitions are our specialty because we love working with clients who are going through important experiences that cause them to re-examine their present sense of self and move towards greater authenticity and happiness. Some may even contribute to a quarter or midlife crisis.
- Living in a new city
- Career confusion or changes
- Motherhood or new parents
- Deciding whether to have kids or not
- The coming out process
- Shifting from school to the workforce
- Changes in relationship status
- Grief and loss
- Substance abuse and recovery
- Becoming vegan or vegetarian
- Being in a different phase of life than your friends.
How you approach & perceive your life transition
Impacts how you feel getting through it.
Quarter & Mid-Life Crisis
“People may call what happens at midlife ‘a crisis,’ but it’s not. It’s an unraveling – a time when you feel a desperate pull to live the life you want to live, not the one you’re ‘supposed’ to live. The unraveling is a time when you are challenged by the universe to let go of who you think you are supposed to be and to embrace who you are.” – Brene Brown
Both the Quarter-Life Crisis and Mid-Life Crisis are embedded in an existential uncertainty about one’s life happiness. There is search for reassurance, direction and greater meaning. But there's also an inability to pinpoint exactly what you should be doing.
At the root of resolving these difficult life phases is authentically and deeply knowing yourself and bravely moving towards your path outside of social, familial and societal influences.
You’re in your 20’s to mid 30’s and you’re feeling confused and doubtful about your life, decisions, and path. You’re trying to figure out and balance what will actually make you happy, your own internal pressures, as well as family and society pressures. You’re torn, lost and unsure.
A Quarter-Life Crisis can be triggered by the pressure to find the right path or career, pressure to be successful, a loss of a relationship, or even seeing your peers in a different phase of life than you. You find yourself wondering, “What am I doing with my life?” “What is going to make me happy?”
- Self-doubt, confusion and difficulty making decisions
- Feeling adrift and lost
- Fear about making the wrong decision
- Career confusion & comparing yourself to peers
- Difficulty transitioning into adulthood
Also known as the mid-life happiness slump, the mid-life period can be a stressful time, where you feel bored and unsettled and you’re reflecting on your life and yearning for a greater sense of purpose.
The Mid-Life Happiness Slump is an emotional crisis of identity and purpose that can occur in early middle age. Triggers could include grief and loss, aging or health changes, financial stressors, family obligations, or wanting more work and personal achievement.
- Confusion about who you are or how you’ve spent your life
- Desire for more purpose and meaning in life
- Difficulties with relationships or disenchantment with career path
- Feeling bored and needing change and adventure
- Feeling disconnected from yourself and others
- Becoming overly nostalgic for a time gone by
We’re Excited to Help you Steadily Move through this Transition:
We accept Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO, Blue Choice and United Healthcare/Optum. However, if you have another type of insurance we can still work together. We can provide you with a bill that you may send into your insurance company with partial reimbursement. Please contact us to provide you with additional information about this.
All el lines are within 1-2 blocks, and, there are two parking garages nearby at 60 E. Lake St. and 20 E. Randolph.
Therapy varies depending on the personalities of the counselor and client, as well as the particular concerns brought forward. Sometimes the chemistry between the counselor and client or the counselor’s style or approach just isn’t a good fit. The relationship between the client and the therapist is of utmost importance. Therefore, we work to create a safe environment where open and honest communication is encouraged so that concerns or questions about treatment or the relationship can be addressed in session. This often benefits the therapeutic process and deepens the therapeutic relationship.
During the first and second session, we will gather information about what has brought you into therapy including your concerns, what you’d like to work on and information about your current and past emotional health and life history. This information helps us gain a deeper understanding about your situation, you as a person and how to best help you. As noted earlier, since it is important that clients feel comfortable with their counseling, we encourage clients to also use the first session as an opportunity to assess if this is a good fit for you as well.
During therapy you will begin to discuss and share your feelings, thoughts, and reactions in order for you to begin to gain insight, develop new thinking patters, coping skills and overall improved quality of life. It is natural to feel uncomfortable about opening up at first but this process because much easier after a few sessions. Since self-growth is possible through commitment and work I will encourage you to practice the things you discuss and learn outside of session.
The number of sessions needed is different for everyone depending on a number of factors including but not limited to your goals, severity or intensity of your concerns or symptoms, how long you’ve been dealing with your concerns, current levels of stress, and the progress you make towards reaching your short or long-term goals.
In general, all communications between a client and counselor are confidential and can only be released with the client’s written permission. However, there are some exceptions required by law to this rule. Exceptions include:
- When there is a reasonable suspicion of child/dependent abuse or of an elder adult.
- When the client communicates a threat of bodily injury to others.
- When the client is suicidal.
- When disclosure is required pursuant to a legal proceeding.